The solution
If you can find
a switched ignition signal you can create an engine run signal by installing a
voltage sensing relay (VSR).
A voltage
sensing relay works by connecting a negative, switched ignition feed to the
input then the out put would become your engine run signal. For the relay to
connect the input to the output it needs to detect +13.2V on the input to
engage rather than +12V like a traditional relay.
Using a voltage sensing
relay (VSR) means you can use a switched ignition because the voltage on the
switched ignition would be below 13.2V unless the engine had already been
started and the alternator was charging the vehicle battery.